The Truth About Working With A Mentor (And Why You Need One)

men·tor

/ˈmenˌtôr,ˈmenˌtər/

noun

1. an experienced and trusted adviser.

Have you worked with a mentor before? 

Some have a misconception that a mentor is only valuable when it comes to your professional life, but the truth is, we all need mentors in every aspect of our lives -- in marriage, in parenthood, in relationships, in health, and in business. 

Having an example to look up to, as well as an actual person to walk with us through the ups and downs of every life area is vital!

One incredible aspect of living in an era with technology is the access we have to so many people around the world. We are able to hear the thoughts and wisdom of thousands of people from all walks of life. 

But sometimes it’s an information overload! 

It’s common to find that a podcast or audiobook is playing in the background while we cook dinner, fold laundry, or commute the kiddos to school. 

We find ourselves scrolling Instagram to find inspiring quotes, life hacks, and the “missing piece” we often feel is lingering over our lives…*if only my life could look like (fill in the blank).* 

We are sponges...taking in everything around us...so we must be intentional that we absorb the words of trusted and wise teachers.

Mentor figures are role models -- people whose behavior and success you want to emulate. 

Mentors have gone before you and share their journey to help you avoid the obstacles they have faced or to learn how to better handle the landmines that may come your way on your journey towards a better life. 

And what’s great is that mentors get to know YOU, too. They don’t just throw out any and every idea and thought to see if they stick. They hone in on giving you only what they really believe will help you as an individual. 

A mentor is someone who walks beside you as your guide. 

They are actively involved in steps and progress you make, and you should be regularly interacting with them at some level - even if it is through technology.

While we have had mentors for most aspects of our lives, we want to share specifically about the mentors we had while helping us create the business of our dreams.

We knew we wanted something different. Not that we weren’t “successful” (in many people’s eyes we had it all), but we wanted more. We wanted a life that wasn’t dictated by our work schedules; a life where we were free to make choices we felt were best for our family.

You won’t be surprised to hear that a huge part of us making that transition was the mentors who walked us through our journey. It’s terrifying to leave the known, the “safe,” to take a risk. Having a wise and trusted teacher lead the way gave us a huge confidence boost. They had already made the transition successfully and could point us in the right direction, as well as help us avoid common pitfalls.

It may sound like having a mentor made it “easy.” But, listen, a mentorship is only as helpful as you allow it to be. If you don’t invest the time, money, and hard work, you might as well just continue scrolling social media for your helpful tips. 

A mentorship works because both parties are investing themselves into it on a dedicated and practical level. 

Seminars, workshops, breakout sessions, one on one coaching, reading, podcasts, etc… are just some of the elements you may have to take part in. Bettering your life is an investment, but we assure you with 100% certainty that it will be worth it! And a mentor can help you weed through the noise!

Because we were able to see how actively participating in a partnership with a mentor set us on the right track towards the lifestyle we desired, we have dedicated a large portion of our time being mentors for others on a similar journey. 

It’s been incredible to coach individuals and couples towards their dreams. Their success is our success. 

We haven’t and wont stop looking up to, and investing in mentors for ourselves. We now have a channel to pass along the wisdom they have shared with us, coupled with the experiences from our own story. 

If you are looking for a mentor, or even just a role model, we are here for you! We love sharing snippets of wisdom and encouragement on social media, but if you want to go deeper, there is opportunity for that as well! 

Reach out and discover a hand ready to help you get started towards the life you desire! Email us at [email protected]